Yes, having projects in the agenda is annoying. I use the philosophy from
http://doc.norang.ca/org-mode.html where any task with subtasks is a project. Stuck projects are those with no next action.
I have several projects which have many nested sub projects in them.
Prior to org mode, I tried so many apps to get this basic feature, but not many are this malleable and still easy to use.
Thanks and have a good day!
Bala
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