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From: Emanuel Berg <incal@dataswamp.org>
To: emacs-tangents@gnu.org
Cc: Eshel Yaron <me@eshelyaron.com>
Subject: Re: Blog post
Date: Thu, 14 Dec 2023 14:11:07 +0100	[thread overview]
Message-ID: <87r0jplyj8.fsf@dataswamp.org> (raw)
In-Reply-To: 87y1dxuf0b.fsf@web.de

"Dr. Arne Babenhauserheide" via Emacs news and miscellaneous discussions outside the scope of other Emacs mailing lists wrote:

>>> Yes, they were totally justified — but usually not
>>> helpful. Most times they needlessly hurt people who then
>>> often stopped contributing. A friendly text may have
>>> helped to stay together and actually fix the problem to
>>> move forward as community. - Arne
>>
>> Nobody gets hurt. It is commonly a type of vengeance (a
>> form of retaliation) intended to dissuade contrarian views
>> directed towards the developers.
>
> I think there’s a misunderstanding here.
>
> When I ranted, my rants were justified, but my rants hurt
> people and that did not help.

Often ranting happens when you are frustrated that people
don't talk to you, so you are not allowed to show frustration
in a good way, you show it in a bad way.

But on e-mail discussion lists it is possible to always write
a more friendly letter.

Sometimes ranting happens still and it isn't that bad.
Often one feels so bad from the whole situation, one feels one
wrote something horrible. But it is often not the case, it is
just one's own feelings one reads into it. HHOS.

-- 
underground experts united
https://dataswamp.org/~incal


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  reply	other threads:[~2023-12-14 13:11 UTC|newest]

Thread overview: 14+ messages / expand[flat|nested]  mbox.gz  Atom feed  top
2023-12-14  7:09 Blog post Eshel Yaron
2023-12-14  7:56 ` Christopher Dimech
2023-12-14  8:30   ` Dr. Arne Babenhauserheide
2023-12-14  9:22     ` Christopher Dimech
2023-12-14  9:29       ` Dr. Arne Babenhauserheide
2023-12-14 12:16         ` Christopher Dimech via Emacs news and miscellaneous discussions outside the scope of other Emacs mailing lists
2023-12-14 12:46           ` Dr. Arne Babenhauserheide via Emacs news and miscellaneous discussions outside the scope of other Emacs mailing lists
2023-12-14 13:11             ` Emanuel Berg [this message]
2023-12-14 16:20             ` Christopher Dimech via Emacs news and miscellaneous discussions outside the scope of other Emacs mailing lists
2023-12-14 17:01               ` Eli Zaretskii
2023-12-14 18:57                 ` Christopher Dimech via Emacs news and miscellaneous discussions outside the scope of other Emacs mailing lists
2023-12-14  9:33       ` Eli Zaretskii
2024-01-10 23:14 ` Stefan Kangas
2024-01-11  9:26   ` Eshel Yaron

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