Due to various outstanding issues related to this feature, I've decided to abandon almost all window twiddling in `post-command-hook' because blacklisting and whitelisting various commands was becoming a sad game of whack-a-mole. Rather, I think it's best if we restrict this option's availability to Emacs 28+ and leverage `read-minibuffer-restore-windows' to keep windows stable when executing extended commands. I also think it makes sense to consolidate knobs and have `erc-scrolltobottom-all' subsume the do-little `erc-scrolltobottom-relaxed' as a third value state (boolean + the symbol `relaxed'). Please see attached changes. Thanks.